Dating in college can be very confusing. There are a lot of things that you may have thought meant one thing, but in the college dating world they could mean something else. I've created a list of seven common tips that could be beneficial in navigating the sometimes troubling waters of college dating.
1. Hooking Up: When you hear “hooking up,” it probably means a one-time, no strings attached event. So if you “hook up” with someone and don't hear from them, or if you don't even exchange phone numbers, don't freak out. That's just a common kind of understood agreement.
2. Residence Hall Love: Try to avoid dating people who live in the same residence hall as you. I mean, what if something happens and you break up or you find out they are hooking up with other people and you just end up getting hurt? Protect yourself, and avoid awkward moments. Dating outside of your residence hall will probably help you in the long run.
3. Dating and Going on Dates: Dating in college means actually going out on dates. It means that you can go to dinner with someone and if it you two don't hit it off, then you don't have to go on a date again. Dating doesn't mean commitment. Casual dating is perfectly acceptable, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
4. Long Distance Relationships Suck: Going to college and dating someone from home can be very difficult. I'm not saying it’s impossible, I'm saying it’s incredibly hard. It takes a lot of time and energy, and it could be worth sitting down with your boyfriend or girlfriend and discussing your options.
5. Don't Be Afraid to Say Yes: If someone asks you on a date just say yes. You could have a great time or a not so great time. Either way, you met someone new, and that is the point of the college social life scene.
6. Party Clothes: If you go home with someone from a party, remember what you are wearing. This one is more for girls. So listen up, ladies. If you end up going home with someone from a party, the bar or wherever, please do not forget underwear or any other article of clothing at their place. Guys don't like it, and it can be embarrassing if you have to meet up the next day at the dining hall to exchange unmentionables.
7. PJ's Won't Get You Far: I know 8 a.m. is early and that sometimes it takes all we have to muster the strength to get out of bed, but wearing PJ's to class isn't classy. It isn't classy, and it probably won't get you the right kind of attention. Throw on some jeans and be thankful you did laundry. Jeans, not PJ's could get you a date or maybe even more.
To sum up: hooking up means just that, so don't expect too much. Don't date people who live down the hall from you, go on dates and say yes! Remember how hard long distance relationships are. Remember what you wear, and don't forget it. And throw on some jeans; it'll be worth your while. I hope that these tips help you figure out the tough waters of college dating.
